High School Students
High School Students

Love

Connection, relationships, and letting people in. Friendships, crushes, family, and fitting in can feel like everything. When connection hurts, you are not alone in it.

What it can feel like

Feeling left out, drama with friends, a breakup that wrecks you, fighting with parents, or feeling like no one really gets you. Online, it can feel like everyone is closer than you are.

Why it happens

Relationships are a huge part of who you are becoming right now, and your brain feels social pain intensely. Social media comparison and changing friendships make it even harder.

What can help

Talking to a trusted friend, counselor, or family member helps you feel less alone. It is okay to step back from relationships that drain you. A school counselor can help with friend or family conflict too.

You might notice

  • Feeling left out or like you do not belong
  • Constant drama or conflict with friends or family
  • Comparing your relationships to what you see online
  • Feeling like no one really understands you

Try this today

  1. 1Reach out to one friend who makes you feel like yourself.
  2. 2Take a break from the app that makes you feel worse.
  3. 3Talk to a counselor about a friendship or family conflict.

Get help now

Free and confidential. If you are in immediate danger, call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room.

Resources for high school students

Local peer support

Soon you will be able to set your town and connect with high school students peers near you for confidential, community-based support. We are building this so help feels close to home.

Coming soon

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